Hi everybody 

If you can see this please do say as I am trying to get my writing blog working again as I just managed to get back into it after at least six years. My own fault I lost the details ­čśŽ

Do hope everyone well though and if this works I will be writing more. 

Kindest Regards and hugs Harp 


The oddness of society

Hi folks its been a while since I’ve been on this so I thought I would write another article as it was sitting in my mind.

While looking around Edinburgh I discoverred that there aren’t really that many good kink shops that have decent stuff. I’ve found Adult Conceptions on Drummond Street and Q Store down Broughton Street and Eros but that’s about the only three in a city this size.

It seems that Anne Summers is allowed to be on the main street but only if it keeps things reasonably tame its more often a lingerie shop with added extras to the back.

Why no genuine kink place where you could go see the things feel the things and buy the items or toys it seems it’s all being made online.

This just seems unusual behaviour to me as we are sexual beings after all it is part of our makeup and kink can be seen as a extension of that. It is as much a need as food and drink I feel. We all have two sides why does society choose to hide one half? I’ve always been of the point of view that to become whole we need to accept both sides of our nature.

So a bigger place where kink can be satisfied and not pushed underground would make things a lot easier. Think of Amsterdam lowest teen pregnancy in Europe probably due to fact that their young can learn and experience without the stigma attached to doing so and it’s obviously working.

Not saying poke people in the eye with it I’m just saying make it more accessible and if anything teach and educate folk instead of just going its online go that way.

Everyone needs a bit of help and experimentation within oneself and consenting others can only be seen as healthy.

Bye for now folks thanks for reading.

SilvAngelDemon xx


Hi all I’m sorry for the absence I was busy but now back with stuff running about in my mind which I usually think it helps when I write or type them out so hope this one helps or you enjoy reading stick with me as here we go. By the name of this post I was meaning in yourself now this can be a difficult thing trust me. Especially when my first boyfriend at 19 who I went with until 21 ended up on the sex offenders register later down life will never understand what happened there as when we were together we met protected and handed over to the police a abandoned 3yr and ended up being called to court as a witnesses for the next year and a half till the mother agreed she was guilty of child neglect. It was about 2yrs later he ended up on the register read it in a evening news and nearly threw up if I had eaten anything that morning it made me think how could my judgement be so flawed but I know there was more to the story as I still think he wasn’t that sort of guy. My luck didn’t get any better fell for a bloke online had a intense relationship by phone and computer for 4yrs daftly lost a lot of money due to misplaced trust. So it took me a while to trust my judgement again I guess it made me cynical and jaded. Can’t say it didn’t change me how can it not but eventually I learnt to accept myself again. I’m still a incurable romantic despite all the bumps I’ve had getting to this point it’s taken a lot. I’m now happy for now I have a guy called Jambo who is my friend and confidante support services when I need it and my masochist who allows and loves me spanking him. He was there for me when I thought I was pregnant by accident despite using protection late periods whereas the guy who I thought was the reason wasn’t this was his choice but it taught me another lesson in judgement. I’m so grateful for Jambo as he’s seen me at my worst and cranky and put up with me understood that at times I just needed space. When I was ready to spank him he’s been there great company and he introduced me to Sin who at one club he couldn’t attend to he was there for me and allowed me to play saved me feeling a spare part. Also let me scratch his back to the point of bleeding and continue enjoy me biting his collarbone and neck then let me try out a new whip this was all consensual I enjoyed doing it and he enjoyed receiving. I’m so lucky to not just have found one but hopefully two when I wasn’t even looking. As Jambo joked he and Sin could talk about being flogged by me over a pint instead of football. I have got to the point where I accept I enjoy spanking flogging caning biting and scratching blokes with their consent and they enjoy it and ask for more. Loved seeing Sins blood cover my hands but it was even more erotically sensual when he sucked it back off my fingers that memory makes me hot too. Hope you enjoyed this writing and maybe it will help you find acceptance its not easy it’s a long road but don’t ever give up or become cynical.

Hugs and be well
Regards SilvAngelDemon xx

The Senses

Hi folks we all now about the above but I’m going to talk specifically about the sense of smell. Has anyone been with a guy and he’s just came back from the gym or he’s been doing some other physical activity ­čśë the smell that comes off them is nothing short of yummy. Despite the fact that he’s probably upset as he’s covered in sweat due to what he’s been doing you are more likely to want to jump on him or at least share his shower for naughty fun. It’s all down to a little thing called pheromones its what you can usually detect in a guy his natural smell and this usually makes you very horny. If you can wake up in the morning next to a guy and still think he smells lovely then you’ve obviously got the right one and congratulations there. I’m guessing that’s what they mean by chemical attraction or chemistry between two folk. Probably also where the saying he just doesn’t smell right comes from. No doubt women also give pheromones off but it’s up to guys to pick them up and iniate action if they should wish and communicate it. Even if a guy wears aftershave or cologne your still going to detect it. Sometimes you can be out and about and a smell will remind you of someone scent association. Which leads you onto Audio and hearing music can also trigger memories attached in the subconscious brain somewhere, you hear something you remember when you last heard it kind of like a imprint or bookmark in a massive book. The reverse can apply if you hear nothing but silence when there should be something this can disconcert. With sight your pupils dilate and retract sometimes your eyes can literally change colour based on what you’re looking at. Remove the sight ie blindfold the sense of touch enhances. Featherlight touches hugs scratches and spanks by hand all very good experiences. Turn on her mind get a lady thinking guys. Despite saying it was only going to be smell I seem to have gone through them all will come back and add to this post over time hope I haven’t bored you all.

Hugs and be well Regards
SilvAngelDemon xx

The language of dance

This addition is inspired by a friend of mine called Halo. When I hit my mid teens my grandparents set about teaching me how to dance ballroom style. It wasn’t too hard to teach me having already been taught Scottish country dancing the whole of my childhood but this was something different. Grandmother would demonstrate by counting to the beat for my benefit and doing the steps. After being told be both my grandparents that I needed to learn how to dance for formal occasions they said we can’t have a granddaughter with two left feet. So grandfather danced me about the living room and I learnt how to follow his lead after probably stepping on his toes a bit. Back to today I usually tell guys I can’t dance but this is due to the fact that I’m used to partner dancing and not solo. Which I guess kinda makes me out of sync with this era as I don’t enjoy pulse beat music but there’s a time and a place for it. Now all I need is a guy that’s capable of leading in dance and in life as the friend who inspired me to write this some things are instinctive especially when slow dancing with a guy or foxtrotting around the stage as long as you both now the steps you can fly ­čśë

Will probably come back later and add to this post with more thoughts as it’s ongoing always learning and I guess I did listen to my grandparents in the end.

Hugs to all be well.

SilvAngelDemon xx

Kink Psychology and a bit about myself

Hi all another thing I’ve been thinking about is the above. If you don’t already know it I’m what is classed as a switch due to being a sensual sadist, yes you did hear that correctly I really enjoy spanking a guy with my bare hands leather gloves over a spanking bench or my lap the later is easier to judge reactions of your masochist partner better and I can highly recommend it great power exchange potential goes on in this position. Having just learned the flogger I have to say that I want to learn more as love the impact but my do I have to work my arms up. Have yet to try caning but I’m going to try to get more experience in that one first. May I also say that this is all consensual my masochist guy absolutely loves it whenever I can do it as it comes under play. Now here’s the weird bit despite enjoying being the one in control with him at least I still long for a guy to control me absolutely love a male hand in a leather glove around my throat or spanking my ass. In bliss if you scratch me until you leave visible marks and I feel horny and ever so floaty if you tie me up ie rope bondage. Hence the reason I’m a switch as I’m a bit to stubborn to be a sub at times. Back to the topic some vanilla folk who know of my kinks ask of me why do I enjoy what I do most of the time I can’t answer as I simply don’t know but the enjoyment it brings is immense according to a friend who told me that the rope bondage induced trance state that I can understand but the spanking of a guy. Sometimes things are best left unanalysed or at least until I understand even myself a bit better its all a learning experience. I for one can say I’m very happy that I found this way of life and have made many friends who are willing to accept me for who I really am. A bit of hint to guys is scratch my back hard and nibble or bite my collarbone or neck and you better be ready as both really do it for me especially if you pull my hair put a hand round my throat and whisper naughty stuff in my ear. So next time somebody asks why do I do it I’m going to say I just do till I can research more. Any advice that anyone may have on this topic I would love to hear from you always good to share knowledge and learn.

Bye for now folks be well hugs
SilvAngelDemon xx