Hi folks this is me trying to work out what goes on in a guys brain after a relationship breakdown. We have all known of it from a female point of view and it hurts but what do guys do to get over it? Depending on who ended the relationship it can hurt them too its just that I doubt a guy would sit around eating ice cream feeling sorry for himself (we have all done this at somepoint ladies). How do guys recover is it from sleeping with anything thats in a skirt? As they must have the same feelings as us ladies if not more as guys dont seem to talk to each other about this. In the pub with his mates you will not see him telling his mates that such and such has left him. Also do some guys fear the confrontation hence breaking up by social medium message or text so not the way to go to go. If youve been with the lady loved the lady have the decency to split with the lady in person. So guys how do you get over a bad split ir breakup I can only learn from you any opinions would be much appreciated. Back to how I ended my first post but this time from a guys point of perspective. Dont give up lose trust or faith or ever think that your lady is out of reach because she isnt maybe you just have to ask the right questions be forward and blunt it will get you to the answer of yes or no a hell of a lot quicker. Heres a secret we actually like forward blunt guys that are straightforward than ones that play games anytime. With all my posts this one will be updated as I find out more along the road.
Be well and Hugs