Over the course of this weekend I’ve been thinking about the above. This is based in the view of why we flirt and fall in lust or love. One of my female friends who has been going through a potentially bad split asked me why do we do this. She wanted to go back in time to stop herself by warning herself if she would listen to herself is another question. Either that or erase a part of her memory that involved said bloke. Now I was thinking upon the issue and I wouldn’t advise any of the above due to the fact that to gain something ie companionship in either love or lust you have to open yourself up to let it in. Hurts like hell if it doesn’t work or connect but if it does the rewards are endless. Guess you have to give to get. Also when she’s over the pain she will be able to look back and remember the good times also and the bad times will still be there but hopefully no longer able to invoke so much pain ie down to a minor niggle. Also we should never give up hope although the going is tough at times it makes me think of my grandparents happily married 60yrs decided within a week to marry unfortunately my grandfather is no longer but what a lot of love they had and gran still has. So as my friend suggested giving up on men is not a option seeing a guy meeting a guy sitting with him chatting eventually flirting and seeing a man’s eyes darken that moment you think please kiss me where there’s sexual chemistry flying through the air and you could cut a knife with it we all feel alive in those moments where your senses sing. Sometimes you connect sometimes you don’t due to other unforseen circumstances maybe the timing wasn’t right but communication is the key in all things don’t be afraid to be forward ask the questions sometimes you get to the answer quicker one way or another. I guess I’m a romantic someone’s out there for everyone and what a friend once said to me is what’s for you won’t go past you.
If you stop by this and read this I was just trying to make sense of what’s in my head and I hope that you don’t mind.
Signing of for now